The Cost of a “Like”
We live in a culture that expects us to share our lives virtually with the world. As parents and grandparents, we share our children’s milestones on social media out of pride and deep love. But, what is the cost of a “Like”?
Is the temporary affirmation worth the unseen risks we invite into our children’s lives?
Once a photo is online, we lose the power to protect it. This is realizing that our children’s digital footprints can be tracked by those we would never invite into our homes.
In the Old Testament, children were sacrificed on the altar of the idol Molech. Today, a different idol exists, and its altar demands constant attention, public affirmation, and the sacrifice of our private lives.
While the world gives us a ‘thumbs up’ for ‘sharing’ it all, God calls us to a higher standard: Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world. Instead, we are called to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, allowing us to discern what is good, pleasing, and perfect will of God.
Protecting our children is about choosing wisdom over the call of the ping! It’s about refusing to let a ‘Like’ validate our worth. When we keep our lives private, we reclaim them as a sacred gift held between us, and our families.
If you aren’t ready to hit “DELETE ALL,” start by auditing what is already there.
Does the picture reveal their school, current location, or full name?
Could the picture be misused by a person with malicious intent?
How will my child feel about this picture being permanently searchable when they are an adult?
Is this post set to “Public”? Even “Friends Only” settings are not foolproof. We cannot control the security of others’ devices or who they might show their screens to.
Prayerfully consider deleting past photos that reveal too much.
Last summer, I did my own audit, and I was surprised by how much of my grandchildren’s lives I had shared without a second thought. I realized my little ones are too precious to simply lay on an unknown altar.
Let’s stop seeking the world’s approval and start guarding the innocence of the treasures God has entrusted to us. They are gifts to be protected, not content to be consumed.
